HOW A WOMAN CAN INFLUENCE HER HOME
A WOMAN'S INFLUENCE IN HER HOME
THE TRUTH IS:
The word "Influence" means to have an effect or impact on people or things around you. Through influence, people tend to leave their priorities (their thought on things & more) for yours.
A person can influence someone positively or negatively. A positive influence is a good influence while a negative influence is a bad influence. A woman needs to have a positive influence on her family. When a woman is single,she thinks only for herself but when she marries, she thinks not only for herself but also for her husband and children.
With these responsibility,she got to have a good/positive influence for her home to grow and flourish. This proceeds to our topic;
HOW A WOMAN CAN INFLUENCE HER HOME
(1) CLEANLINESS:
Cleanliness they say is next to Godliness. A woman must be clean/neat to influence her home. She must keep her home clean always at all cost. Her kids must be also neat & healthy. A woman must not be dirty if she wants to influence her home.
(2) ORDERLINESS:
Aside from being neat,a woman must keep her home in order. Everything must be properly kept and arranged. She must dress and look good and in order together with her kids.
(3) TIME MANAGEMENT:
A woman must manage her time effectively. Everything has time. She should not be late to accomplish anything at home. For example; food must be prepared on time, clothes must be washed regulary,her kids must be on bed on time and be early always to school. She should also make time for her husband as well.
(4)GOOD CHARACTER AND POISE:
A woman must possess a good character and have great virtues like; respect,kindness, understanding, patience, God-fearing character, confidence (in herself and family), discipline and love. She must always carry herself in an elegant manner. She must mind her business and avoid lousy/dirty gossips. She must also try to be at peace with neighbors and her fellow women.
She should not be acholic and must not cheat with her husband. A woman should not share her family's problems or talk ill about her husband outside to other women. She must be of good character.
(5) BEING AMBITIOUS:
Even if the man is the Head of the family and must provide financially, a woman should not rely on her husband's income/money but should also work hard and make her own money from what she knows best how to do/opportunity that comes her way. A time comes when a man gets financially down and might not be able to cope and provide some family needs. The woman should be there to support financially but not at all times. If not,the man would relax and not provide at all.
SUMMARY
If a woman abides to these five(5) strong themes, there is assurance that she would be a great influence on her home and it will flourish in Good morals, neatness and excellence.
Yours Sincerely,
CHIEF CODEE.
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